Here is a link to a video I did for YourTango's Experts. In it, I talk about who is responsible for getting a partner to orgasm and how sharing the responsibility will make for a happier sexual relationship.
I hope you enjoy the video and share it with online friends !
http://www.yourtango.com/2013174722/who-is-responsible-for-your-orgasm?utm_source=YourTango+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=4c8affab15-YTNewsletter_A_B_02201302_202013&utm_medium=email
If it interests you, visit my new article for YourTango.com on Open Relationships : Broaching the Forbidden Topic
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/melissa-fritchle/considering-open-relationship-how-talk-your-partner-e
Check out my latest video for YourTango Experts on advice for women who worry because they can only orgasm when masturbating. Here is the link
http://www.yourtango.com/2013171014/help-i-cant-climax-my-boyfriend-video