Melissa Fritchle, LMFT

Holistic Psychotherapy in Santa Cruz

Training for Professionals


In Person Trainings : 

Desire Discrepancies & Erotic Incompatibility in Couple's Therapy

Saturday November 9, 2019 9:30am - 3:30pm                               

co-sponsored by Shine a Light Counseling Center at Resource Center for Non-Violence, Santa Cruz      $90 (5 CA BBS CE hours) 

Intimacy & attachment within committed relationships is not always enough to create satisfying shared sexuality. But many couple’s therapists hope that by addressing everything but the realities of sexual desires and preferences, clients’ sex lives will somehow improve. In this workshop, you will get real ideas about how to address client’s concerns when their sexuality does not seem matched. You will learn principles of Holistic Client-Centered Sexual Health Assessment & ways to talk about sexual differentiation within couples and healthy negotiation about sexual boundaries.

Learning Objectives 

Identify 4 aspects of Healthy Sexuality to assess for in clients

Be able to define Erotic Orientation

Gain 3 tools for improving sexual negotiation skills

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 Live Online Trainings:

New offerings coming soon 


 Online Trainings Available Anytime, Anywhere :

Supporting Families When Kids are Becoming Sexually Active 

Offered Through AAMFT $35 

Facing the realities of a child's sexuality can be difficult for any parent. As therapists, people turn to us for guidance on how to manage this aspect of parenting and family life. In this webinar Sex Therapist & Educator Melissa Fritchle will discuss developmental sexuality in the context of our modern life so that we can help parents be positive and proactive as their children grow into adulthood. She will outline some of the current topics families may face such as, masturbation, porn, consent, gender, STDs, birth control, abstinence. Providing diverse sex positive-therapy means focusing on ways to support parents clarify and articulate their own ethics, fears, and hopes regarding their children's sexuality, while always considering our own counter-transference and mythologies so that we can be more effective. 

 Working With Sexual Desire in Couples Therapy

 Offered Through AAMFT      $35

The most common sexual complaint clients will bring to couples therapy is low sexual desire, for one or both partners. And yet, many therapists feel at a loss in how to address this complex issue and the relational fallout that can occur for couples after years of a struggling sex life. In this webinar, Ms. Fritchle will look at the newest diagnostic features for low desire and talk about the discrepancies in how to define low desire at all. Ms. Fritchle will outline a holistic sexual assessment that takes into account the interrelated physical, social, spiritual, and mental aspects that can impact desire. She will address common dynamics seen in couples related to low desire, including non-sexual couples, and how to support them in seeking change.  

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 Professional Consultations:

 I offer private consultations with therapists and health professionals. Do you want to work more holistically with your clients? Do you want to feel more inspired and empowered to create change? Do you want to expand your healing practice to include more depth in the areas of sex and relationships? We can schedule your private consultation as a phone session or in my office. I charge $100/hour for consultations; you can talk about as many cases as you like.